Signs That You Really Don't Like Him

Before my current relationship, I've had a few of those "I'm so not feeling him" moments. I don't even know if they were moments, like it was just horrible. It's so easy for me to not like a dude. Here are some ways to tell if you're just not that into him at all.


1. Everything reminds you of him, in a bad way!
You grow to hate some of your once-favorite things because they remind you of him. “I would CRINGE at the sound of my own cell phone ringtone because I was afraid he was calling me!! To this day, I still can’t listen to that song." 
2. Little white lies are your new M.O.
He phones on Saturday to ask you out and you tell him that you already have plans—when all you intended to do was veg in sweats in front of the TV all night long.
3. You don't miss him.
You forget about him while you’re apart. “If the only time I think about him is when I see him or he calls, that says a lot."
4. He embarrass you.
The mere thought of introducing him to your family mortifies you.
5. You think he's trying extremely TOO hard.
You could care less about his extravagant, romantic gifts. “Once a dude gave me roses." “They just made me feel guilty that I wasn’t excited to see him, so I gave them to my mom and broke up with him the next day.”
6. You're emotionally detached.
You find out he’s been dating another girl—and you’re relieved.
7. The sparks are nonexistent.
The perfect date doesn’t even make you smile, let alone swoon. If it didn’t work under the best conditions, I knew we were doomed. Lol.
8. You're looking for someone new.
You meet a guy and immediately wonder if he’s available, forgetting that you're not.
9. You're NEVER in the mood. NEVER!
Sex is the last thing on your mind when you are together. “When things fizzled with my ex, I could fool myself kissing him, but whenever he wanted to have sex, my list of reasons not to went on for days!” 
10. You create drama.
You pick fights with him just to have something to talk about.